The Emotionally Absent Mother How to Recognize and Heal the Invisible Effects of Childhood Emotional Neglect

The Emotionally Absent Mother : How to Recognize and Heal the Invisible Effects of Childhood Emotional Neglect
ISBN: 9781615193820
Publication Date: 1 April 2017

Was your mother too busy, too tired, or too checked-out to provide you with the nurturing you needed as a child Men and women who were "undermothered" as children often struggle with intimate relationships, in part because of their unmet need for maternal care. The Emotionally Absent Mother will help you understand what was missing from your childhood, how this relates to your mother's own history, and how you can fill the "mother gap" by:

• Examining the past with compassion for yourself and your mother
• Finding the child inside of you and learning to mother yourself
• Opening to the archetype of the Good Mother
• Allowing friends and loved ones to provide support, guidance, and other elements of good mothering that you missed

Through reflections, exercises, and clear explanations, psychotherapist Jasmin Lee Cori helps adult sons and daughters heal the wounds left by mothers who failed to provide the essential ingredients that every child needs. She traces perceived personal "defects" back to mothering deficits, relieving self-blame. And, by teaching today's undermothered adults to cultivate the mothering they missed, she helps them secure a happier future-for themselves and their children.

About the Author

Jasmin Lee Cori, MS, LPC, is a licensed psychotherapist who specializes in working with adults who experienced childhood abuse and neglect. She has worked in human service agencies and private practice, and taught psychology in colleges and professional schools. She is the author of numerous articles and four previous books, including Healing from Trauma.